We live in a world today where it almost seems taken for granted that husbands will be unfaithful to their wives, and wives to their husbands. And because we take it for granted, we lose sight of how painful and destructive it is to a marriage.
I think the same thing can be said about our relationship with God.
God often compares our relationship with him to a marriage.
As Christians, we are the bride of Christ. And when we are unfaithful to him, it causes great pain to the heart of God and is destructive to our relationship with him.
That’s what God points out in these chapters. Time and again, he points out his faithfulness and love to Israel.
He reminds them how he showed grace and mercy to their father Jacob, though he started out as a deceiver and as one who fought against God.
He reminds them how he brought them out of Egypt, and cared for them in the desert through Moses.
But after Israel came into their land and became strong, they also became proud.
They were unfaithful to God, and started building and worshiping the works of their own hands.
From there, things went from bad to worse. They even started sacrificing their own children to these gods.
And when their enemies came against them, instead of turning to God, they made treaties with other nations and allied themselves with them.
You can see the pain in the words of God as he rebukes Israel. He sounds as a husband who has been scorned by his wife, saying,
Ephraim has surrounded me with lies, the house of Israel with deceit. (Hosea 11:12)
He told them that though he cared for them and redeemed them to be his wife, they had bitterly provoked him to anger. (Hosea 12:14)
And so God warned them of the judgment to come. He said that when it came, there would be no remedy.
No king they set up could save them. And because they had turned from their husband and helper, God wouldn’t help either.
Hosea 13:14 is probably better translated as a question.
Shall I ransom them from the power of Sheol? Shall I redeem them from death?
O Death, where are your thorns? O Sheol, where is your sting? Compassion will be hidden from My sight. (NASB)
Paul would later use this passage to talk about how the thorns and sting of death would be pulled out by Christ’s victory over the grave.
But here, it seems that God is calling for the thorns of death and the sting of Sheol (the Hebrew word for the grave) to pour out all their wrath over the people of Israel for their unfaithfulness.
All Hosea prophesied would come to pass within the next 70 years or so. Israel would collapse as a nation because of their unfaithfulness to God.
Did God still love them?
Yes.
Would he eventually restore them?
Yes, because as I’ve mentioned before, he remains faithful even when we are not.
A marriage can survive unfaithfulness.
But there’s considerable pain and hardship when a partner is unfaithful.
The same is true with our relationship with God. That’s what Israel would eventually learn.
How often do we think about the considerable hurt and anger we cause God by our unfaithfulness to him?
We forget his love and faithfulness towards us and trample on them in order to pursue our other lovers, the things of this world.
Let us always remember that as much as we can cause pain to our husbands or wives by our unfaithfulness to them, we cause great pain to the heart of God by our unfaithfulness to him.
Let us not be that way.
Let us instead be faithful to the one who always has been, and always will be faithful to us.
