sorrow – Moment to Moment (Bible blog)

Life is not always easy. David himself knew this and wrote many songs of lament, including this one, Psalm 5.

But though we sorrow in the midst of a broken world, here are some things to remember.

1. Who God is. Namely, who God is to us. He is our God. And he is our King (Psalm 5:2).

What does that mean practically? It means we are to honor him. And we are to obey.

Christians nowadays like to think of God as Father or Friend. And he is those things.

But in the midst of our complaints, let us not forget he is also our God and King. And he is worthy of our honor and obedience.

2. God’s character. Sometimes, we look at the evil around us, and we start to question God’s character. We wonder if he is truly good.

But remember that though he may sometimes seem “slow” when it comes to dealing with evil, he will ultimately bring justice (2 Peter 3:8-10).

And on that day, all will know the truth of David’s words.

You are not a God who delights in wickedness; evil cannot dwell with you. (Psalm 5:4)

No matter what evil we may see around us, let us never grow cynical about God’s character.

3. We too come before God only by his grace (7). We may get angry at the evil people around us, but let us remember with humility that without God’s grace, we’d be under God’s judgment as well.

4. Our need for God’s leading and his help to do what’s right. Especially when we’re in the midst of adversity. So with David, let’s pray,

Lord, lead me in your righteousness
because of my adversaries (or problems, as the case may be);
make your way straight before me. (8)

Finally, let us choose to rejoice and boast in our Lord (11).

It is so easy to fall into a spirit of complaining when troubles come.

Let us rather choose to take refuge in our God, and rejoice in him.

It will amaze you how much your perspective will change and how much smaller your problems will seem in the light of God’s greatness.

Two kinds of sorrow

Satan’s name means “accuser” or “adversary,” and for good reason. He often comes at us accusing us for our sins and trying to point out to us what miserable wretches we are.

The thing is, most times we deserve what Satan says about us.

He points out every sin in our lives and basically tells us, “You’re no good. You’re worthless. Look at your sin. You don’t deserve a thing from God. How could God love someone like you?”

And he tries to crush us under the weight of our guilt.

But if you’re a child of God, you need to understand that if you are feeling these things, if you are feeling crushed under the weight of your guilt, those feelings are not coming from God.

Yes, when we sin, God wants us to sorrow over our sin. But godly sorrow and worldly sorrow are two entirely different things.

Paul writes,

Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it.

Though I did regret it–I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while–yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance.

For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. (2 Corinthians 7:8-9)

Paul’s words made the Corinthians feel guilty for what they had done. His words made them sorrow for their sin…but only for a short time.

Paul’s goal was not to destroy them. He in no way wanted them to suffer any long-term harm from his words of rebuke.

Rather, he wanted them to repent from their sins that their relationship with him and with God might be restored.

Paul then draws a sharp distinction between godly sorrow and worldly sorrow. He said,

Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. (2 Corinthians 7:10)

The biggest difference between godly sorrow and worldly sorrow is this:

Worldly sorrow causes people to live all their lives in regret, seeing no way for their sins to be forgiven and no hope for the future. And ultimately these feelings of sorrow and guilt crush them.

Godly sorrow, on the other hand, leads to repentance and a knowledge that no matter what they’ve done, God has forgiven them.

And so leaving regret and sorrow behind, they take Jesus’ hand and walk into the future he has for them: a future filled with hope and life.

When you sin, is your sorrow a worldly sorrow that crushes you under feelings of guilt?

Or is it a sorrow that leads you to the feet of Jesus? Is it a sorrow that leads you to repentance and life?